Friendships

I know that I posted something about friendships in the past – but this one is positive, I promise.

So my best friend, Arran, (apart from my boyfriend, because he’s like my best friend too) lives in a different state, and we used to work together. We worked together, then lived together, then had a falling out – because it happens.

I think it took us a year to really reconnect again, and we were hanging out and all was well, and then life took ahold of us. I wasn’t really able to talk to him again until after he moved into a different state. And the more I think about it, the more I feel like it was the right time for us to be rekindling our friendship.

I wish that we did it sooner, but I think we both needed each other at the precise time, and thus we became better friends for it. We were both “hurting” from other relationships that have scorned us, and therefore when we started talking again through facebook, everything started to make sense.

Having a best friend that is essentially your sibling is rare – in fact, I’ve always just hung on to people because I want to have that relationship. I’ve made mistakes and I’ve found some really horrid people along the way who recognized this, and thus taken advantage of my situation. But, I’m really thankful to have him, and I tell him that I love him all the time.

I wish that everyone would have a best friend that is as wonderful and understanding as he is, even though we can be a bit of an asshole to others at times. You don’t need to have a friend that’s an asshole per say┬ábut if it makes life fun and keeps you out of trouble, then who cares?

As always, wishing all of you readers well,

Kay

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Friendships

Okay, time to get personal here. But that’s what a blog is for, right?

One of my desires in this world is to have a best friend that will stick with me thick and thin, and that lives near me.

Wow, that wasn’t so hard, but it’s hard to admit out loud sometimes.

I have three best friends that are all male, in my life. I always wanted a female best friend that would just last, but to be honest, I could never keep that connection. Maybe I’m just full of it (put the swear that starts with S but I’m trying not to swear on here) but nevertheless, it’s something that I’ve wanted. But, who really cares, because I can change, but sometimes people can’t, because everything else gets in the way.

It’s taken me some time to realize that it doesn’t matter.

Because at the end of the day, people are going to be in your life because they want to, and you can try, but if they don’t it doesn’t mean that you’re not good enough. I know this is kind of a crappy post after the last one, but if I would have to go with any shred of advice, remember this.

Never, ever doubt your instinct. If your gut tells you that it won’t work, listen to it.

Because I didn’t and every, single, time, I forget about it. Don’t worry, I’ll post about it later. It’s something that needs to be out in the open anyways.

Kay.